ARE YOU MARRIED ?

What are usually the questions you ask someone you are interested in ? 

Recently, I met this guy who ticked all of my boxes and even more, he has a good job. Got his acts together and has his goals set on track. 
He has got the looks and of cause the right attitude, knows how to treat a lady right.
 I liked him but I had to pause when that inner voice said 'ask him if he is married'. 
Listen, when you walk with the holy spirit you would make less mistakes in your life.

So, I asked the question as instructed by the spirit and this guy just wore a blank look that gave him away immediately.

I just died inside because once again yet another time waster just showed up looking like the one but certainly not the one because God is not an author of confussion. 

So, I soft pedalled and stayed on that question until I got my answers, he reluctantly owned up and buttered it up with so much love profession. 

I just gave him a blank look and told him in as simply as possible words, I don't date or entertain married men. 


It actually hurt me more to cut him loss, but it hard to be done. 
When a man shows up in your life, do well to ask him, if he is committed to another woman. 
It would save you a lot of heartache, and keeps your emotional space clear. 

Your homegirl
Jennifer Ebere Richards



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